Selfishness is defined as being preoccupied with one's own desires, being concerned with one's own interests, needs and wishes while ignoring those of others (Encarta Dictionary) . Eva expressed a certain pleasure at having a child. during a moment of reflection, Eva said, "Maybe saying I wanted more story was an allusion to the fact that I wanted someone else to like it." Eva also thought about how she could share her travels with her children and how they could ask her questions and share stories about different countries. Eva said becoming parents should be something she and Franklin agreed on, and they should make that decision together. It doesn't seem like she was being selfish. It seems Eva had to deal with the invisible sacrifices she would have to make as well as her desire to have someone else to love. In the book, The Secret Life of the Unborn refers to a study of 2,000 women. The area of ​​study focused on how they felt about their unborn child. “The results of this study showed that women who looked forward to becoming mothers had children who were physically and emotionally healthier than children of mothers who were not looking forward to the experience. Although the prenatal does not understand feelings the way an adult does, the unborn child is capable of feeling even slight differences in emotions. (Ibid, p. 18) It is possible and quite likely to experience and respond to feelings of doubt and uncertainty as well as stronger emotions such as hatred and love. » Another study was carried out in Austria by Dr. Gerhard Rottom, from the University of Salzburg, this consisted of... middle of paper ...... somehow he appreciated his mother and her achievements, but it was not expressed until after he had killed that he verbalized it. When Eva broke her arm, Kevin protected his mother from CPS and his father. He lied, but we don't know for sure if it was to protect her or to give him leverage over Eva. Regardless, Kevin calculates the death of the teacher and students. He methodically planned their murder. It is difficult to express sympathy for someone who explained in such detail how and when to kill. He killed a defenseless eight-year-old and his father who invested so much in him, who goes to school and continues to kill. The emotion that arises is grief, grief that cannot be measured, that a person is so emotionally disconnected. . You mourn their loss of humanity. Emotions that are experiences are what make us human and not animals.