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Essay / Three Signs You Might Be Dating the Wrong Girl - 631
3 Signs You Might Be Dating the Wrong Girl In relationships, sometimes you have to cross many rough roads before you finally meet the proverbial "The One." Well, this statement is true for most people. Relationships are complicated in nature and for good reason. While it's easy to be romantically involved with someone, it's never worth fighting for. However, what makes a relationship more complex is when you are dating a girl who is completely unsuitable for you. Haven't you noticed that your friends stop hanging out with you since you started dating your current girlfriend? They don't give you the space and time to enjoy the experience of a relationship. They are obviously avoiding your girlfriend. You know you deserve a break from dating all the wrong women. If you want to have any chance of having a real relationship, you need to be aware of the red flags that the person you're currently dating isn't right for you. There are signs you need to know about and you need to be a keen observer to really see them. Here are some of the warning signs that you are dating the wrong girl. She flirts a lot If the girl you're dating is easily physically attracted to every man she meets, then you need to back off a bit. There are telltale signs that your current flame is a perpetual flirt. Have you ever noticed that your daughter keeps her eyes glued to another man even when she is chatting with you? Or do you always see her playing with her hair and casually touching every attractive man she talks to? You're dating a serial flirt. This is something to be proud of if your girl is every man's fantasy. However, if your girl moves and hits a man who fantasizes about her, then that's a huge problem for you. Before you commit... middle of paper ...... about him is when she is still turning to him for emotional support even when she knows you can provide that kind support. If your girlfriend talks a lot about her ex and starts comparing you to him, with the ex-boyfriend winning all comparisons, then she's clearly not over him. When you feel like you're dating someone who still has unresolved feelings for their ex-beau, you need to talk to him about it calmly. It's possible that she's just confused with her feelings. Maybe you need to break up with her while she sorts out what needs to be sorted out with her ex. Elizabeth Davis is a well-known and respected relationship counselor. Visit her website RelationsAdvice.co where she offers free, no-holds-barred advice, friendship and support to anyone experiencing difficulties in their marriage. You can also join her on her Facebook page.