Life is unpredictable. It doesn't always bring happiness and give us everything we want. No matter how hard we try and how much we want to make life move according to our own direction, it does not turn out according to our wishes. In our life we ​​have to make important decisions. Few decisions give direction to our lives. Thus, in order to make these decisions, it is imperative that all rational and logical factors are taken into consideration. But it often happens that we make decisions under the influence of others. In this family, relatives and friends play an important role in my life. If I rewind my life, I can also think of various events in which I made decisions under the influence of other people. We make others who make us follow and obey what others tell us our priority and our value. One of the decisions that makes me feel pain and doubt in my heart and mind is whether to continue our friendship with a friend at school. I still don't know if I made this decision correctly or not, but I think about it often. In my school, there was a boy who had no friends. He used to greet everyone but he had no real or close friends. This aspect of his personality always made me suspicious of his personality. One day I found him in the library and we started a conversation. After that, we started seeing each other often at the library. Slowly and steadily we became good friends. The feeling that appeared in my heart that I am the friend of someone who was alone made me delighted. When I became friends with this boy, it revealed to me that he was truly lonely and painful. He badly needed someone to share everything he was suffering with. In difficult times, I was a supporter and...... in the middle of the newspaper ...... in what situation. But we also cannot ignore that there are forces that manipulate and influence an individual's decision-making power. In this regard, I would like to raise the following question: in the circumstances and situation I found myself in, is it right for other people to exert so much pressure to make the decision they want? Is it okay that if a person is on the wrong path, we don't talk to them or be friends with them? Isn't it right that we be friends with this person and try to improve their life? Is it more important to listen to your parents and take into account the wishes of your friends than humanity? These are some of the questions that often come to mind. These are the questions that have become the mystery of my life. I hope to find the answers to these questions before the end of counting my breaths..