Patriarchal terrorism is a general need to control a relationship. It is violence exclusively initiated by men with the aim of acquiring and maintaining absolute control over their female partners. (Shehan, 2003) The second form of domestic violence, common domestic violence, is less a product of patriarchy. (Johnson, 1995) Patriarchal terrorism exists today. There are no differences in intimate violence based on class, education, race/ethnicity, or sexual orientation. Intimate violence is violence that occurs between two people in a relationship. It includes four types of behavior: physical violence, sexual violence, threats and psychological violence. The longer the abuse lasts, the more it will affect the victim. (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2006) Partner violence occurs in all countries, regardless of social, economic, religious, and cultural boundaries. (Shehan, 2003) I have observed couples with good communication and poor communication and intimacy. Dr. Gottman and his colleagues have developed recommendations, tactics, and strategies for couples experiencing communication, intimacy, and conflict issues. There is no specific time or date when domestic violence began. But social scientists began studying family violence in the United States in the 1960s. (Shehan, 2003) In the United States, the way children were punished for breaking the rules was often semi-social behavior. violent or violent. Violence existed when there was no family system. Violence takes many forms: physical, mental, emotional and sexual. Family violence involves domestic violence. During the women's movement, the public became aware of the problem of domestic violence. The first shelter for battered women opened in 1974 and led to the opening of many other shelters and domestic violence programs. In the 1990s, law enforcement considered domestic violence a serious problem. Police protocol changed and arrests were made. According to the National Survey, violence in one relationship leads to violence in another relationship. (Shehan, 2003) Families provide a training ground for violence. If children witness violence in their home, they should especially describe the violence in their daily lives. Child abuse and abuse includes physical, sexual, or emotional abuse, in addition to neglect. Manifestations of child abuse and neglect include injuries inflicted by a child donor, head injuries, and organ injuries. Head injuries are the leading cause of death among children. According to the World Health Organization, there are an estimated 57,000 deaths attributed to homicide among children under the age of 15. 2000.