Because one of the things guests notice when they walk into a church is how relaxed it is, what type of people they have there. 'church. You need to teach your congregation to spot visitors in the church so they can welcome them and even strike up a conversation with them. Because many visitors will feel like they made a friend or two that day at church. Invite them in small groups, to sit with you at church, at lunch, dinner, or to pick up their phone