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Essay / Extreme Parenting, The Flaws and Results - 1428
Today, there are many ways to manage your household; All families have different parenting techniques. Some parents are very gentle with their children and others less so. Some parents think that they should not give their children any freedom if they want to succeed in life and get everything they want in life. But in my opinion, everyone should have the freedom to do what they want, unless it brings no good. But then you have to look at things from the parents' point of view: if they are in control of their lives, they believe their children won't do anything bad or dangerous. Some children may listen to their parents because it's the right thing to do, but others may want to do that specific thing simply because they were told not to do it in the first place. Not everyone is the same but some people are like that, children need freedom but not too much because sometimes they can get out of control. I know parents who won't allow their children to get less than an A in class. Some parents may put too much pressure on their children, causing them to become rebellious in the future. Could extreme parenting be healthy for children or just go in the opposite direction. I know a little boy but I won't mention his name but he comes over every other day with his family and he likes to play video games and just likes to have fun like every other 7 year old. When he comes to my house, he knows that he can have everything he wants without asking, because my house is his home even if he doesn't live here. Every time he wants to eat something, he has to ask his parents if he can have some, even if he is hungry, they sometimes don't let him eat, without knowing why. But if I were them, I wouldn't say no because... middle of paper... I need it. In my opinion, they will eventually succeed if they have the best of both worlds, because they will not get tired because they have very strict parents or because their parents let them do whatever they want. One day, parents who let their children do whatever they want will regret doing so. Basically, be aware of everything your kids do throughout their lives, but also don't spoil their fun when they do it. Help them understand why they are pushed so hard to accomplish certain things. The day they know the day they will do the things they need to do without even being asked, just knowing it needs to be done. Being too strict may cause your children to stop caring later in the future, for some, but for others, they may simply drop out of school or simply stop listening to their parents because they feel too pushy and just fed up with everything..