It just differs for all of us in how we do it and when we take that step and grow up. Becoming a man could mean that man could have many definitions depending on who you ask. For some people, becoming a man is when you graduate from high school and begin to take more responsibility for your own actions. Most people expect this because leaving home to venture off to college while building a life could mean your man since you're finally doing things on your own without needing as much help as 'Before. You're also putting the final pieces of the puzzle together to shape who you will be in the future. Some people are the man of the house when the father figure of the house is missing. Becoming a man prematurely is a lot of work for an age where you are rich with your childhood and you not only have to grow up quite quickly, but also take care of your younger siblings in every way possible. Most of the time, people drop out of school to support their families. They show themselves to be a man when they put someone else's needs before their own. This does not always guarantee that they are doing what it takes to provide for their family, as in some cases. we are desperate to be willing to sell drugs, our body and our soul just to be able to support everyone around us, we become martyrs. For some people, becoming a man is when they do something special with a girl. Marriage is of course a large part of our lives, probably the most important. So many things