When hearing the tragic life story of a bullied child, the first thing that comes to many people's minds is: how would it have could it have been avoided? In many cases, bullying mainly happens at school, so why didn't teachers notice and intervene? There seems to be a widespread assumption that this is a normal phenomenon and that "it's just kids being kids" among teachers and parents, which is extremely frightening for young people. Bullying is not a normal part of life, and it's not just teasing and having fun with each other. In its true form, bullying is child abuse, whether manifested through physical or psychological attacks from the surrounding community. Teachers and parents must learn to recognize and stop bullying when it is observed inside and outside of schools, as bullying can lead to higher rates of mental health problems, sudden and strong personality alterations, and he also becomes attached to one person at the moment. the rest of his life. One of the main reasons for addressing bullying before it goes on for too long is that children who are bullied are at higher risk of suffering from mental illnesses such as depression, anxiety disorder widespread and suicide. . Some individuals reacted violently, and in 12 of the 15 school shootings that occurred in the 1990s, the shooter reportedly had conflicts with bullies (“Effects”). Mental illness combined with bullying becomes a major risk factor for suicide (“Effects”). It's no wonder that bullied teens are afraid to come to school every day, and that needs to change. For example, on September 10, 2013, a 12-year-old girl committed suicide by jumping from a tower onto concrete (Liston). She faced two years of widespread bullying and stalking in the middle of a paper. The caloric effects on bullying are extremely serious and should not be looked down upon in any way. Schools and communities too often stand idly by while people struggle, sometimes outright mocking the victim or, in some cases, being told to let it go. How can we, as a society, allow these children to abuse each other? Is this what we want people to think growing up, which is how the real world works? The real world doesn't work like school, and both bullies and victims of bullying are going to run into serious problems because of what they experienced, since no one ever taught them better. Teachers, parents and the community must learn the signs of bullying and ways to effectively deal with bullying as soon as it is spotted, otherwise more and more children will emerge scarred and unprepared for the reality, if they have the chance to do so. get out alive.