With this critical milestone occurring at elementary school age, it is important to teach them and their peers to be open and accept whatever decisions are ultimately chosen. With sex education in schools, this can be accomplished by talking with mentors and looking at things with a spirit of acceptance (as opposed to the traditional Western philosophy of promoting abstinence in schools) . While it's a great idea to teach sex education, there are a few pitfalls along the way; the first being the implantation of religious or political opinions of any kind. Paglia addresses this issue in a Time Magazine article, where she states that "...some instructors may import their own sexually permissive biases...yet schools themselves should remain neutral and allow society to evolve on its own." » (Web) However, it is also important to allow young people to respond to questions, opinions and, above all, options. It may seem awkward that an entire school system remains gender neutral while still giving its students the guidance they deserve; However, it seems that the Dutch have found a