Almost as if they had to be trained like animals. Second, socioeconomic status was a key factor in abusive relationships. There is evidence that low-income women are more frequently victims of domestic violence than wealthier women. Situations in which the male partner is underemployed or unemployed, not seeking employment, or resides in a poor neighborhood can all impact abusive relationships. Third, some abusers have been abused themselves. Here, the perpetrators were abused during their upbringing, whether physically, verbally or sexually. They may also have witnessed domestic violence as children. From then on, being abusive was ingrained in their minds. They were confused about a healthy relationship. Using violence as a means of power and control was the way of life. Boys who witness domestic violence are more likely to be beaten as adults. Fourth, race was another factor in violence. Black women appear more disrespectful to men and speak inappropriately, leading to abuse. Black women also worry about the repercussions of reporting domestic violence. Many abusive relationships disappear