Passionately in love even after all these years? It's possible It's pretty easy to promise a lifelong commitment to someone. But sticking to it is almost something easier said than done. With temptations and indifference issues lurking around every corner, it's simply impossible to stay head over heels in love. This is despite all the good reasons you fell in love in the first place. This is a bitter truth that every relationship, old and new, must recognize. The nightmare in all of this is that when things get too dry, either of you just isn't as turned on by anything other than just seeing each other. The secret to a happy relationship is one that starts and stays passionate about each other. Managing a career and raising children on the side can also be extremely draining on you. What most couples forget to consider is that they can't just let the passion slip away, no matter how hectic or toxic each day is. Believe it or not, the key to keeping that romantic fire burning in long-term couples lies in these simple, proven secrets.1. Keep the lines of communication open. There is no more effective way to maintain the relationship than to always find time to talk to each other about anything. You can talk about what's happening throughout the day, how everyone feels about a pressing national issue, or what projects you want to pursue together. If you're encouraged to talk about simple things, there's no reason why you shouldn't. talk about the most complicated ones. If you are faced with a problem, it is best to talk about it with someone who understands and is directly involved in the whole situation. No other person should be able to make you feel better than your other half. The power of communication ... middle of paper ...... and stop criticizing your partner for flaws that weren't apparent when you were first dating. When you are more engaging and fun, your partner will be a hundred times more attracted to you.8. Choose to be a loving and loving partner all the time. There will be times when you are forced to be anything but loving. You are human and you can't always be at your best when it comes to being in love with your partner. But no matter what, always choose to be loving and forgiving. Your partner will always remember how you make them feel. Gestures of love can go a long way and they will surely be rewarded with twice as much love as you have given. Elizabeth Davis is a well-known and respected relationship counselor. Visit her website where she offers free, no-holds-barred advice, friendship and support to anyone experiencing difficulties in their marriage..