Socializing with your ex: what to doAfter the breakup, the last person you want to see after days of grieving for a dead relationship is your ex. This is completely normal because a breakup, even covered in gold and sprinkled with pixie dust, is still a horrible affair. Yes, there may be a small number of people who will tell you that their breakup is amicable, that everything is great, and they are still friends with their exes. People will say whatever they can to let others know that everything is okay after the breakup, but deep down they know it's a huge pile of bullshit. There may be a time after the breakup where their world crumbles uncontrollably around them. Breakups are never pleasant, no matter how hard you try to put on a charming facade. Plus, after a breakup, there will be many places you choose not to go because you don't want to accidentally bump into your ex. The cafes where you usually have coffee after dinner, the bar you frequent on double dates with other couple friends - these places...