When it comes to date rape, which can happen with a coworker, a friend, a boyfriend, it is hard to believe that these people would do such a thing, but it there are ways to limit it; go out in a group rather than alone, keep an eye on your drink you made yourself, notice his mood and reaction to things. According to the Huffington Post website, there are seven warning signs that can help women avoid rape. "Your date is trying to make you ignore your instincts, your date wants to take you somewhere secluded, your appearance will lull you into a sense of security: meaning that just because he's handsome, you'll tend to to feel unrealistically secure, your date will encourage you to drink or take drugs, your date tries to separate you from your friends, accomplices and conspiracies: there may be multiple perpetrators conspiring to commit the crime. crime, and the rapist gradually amplifies his attack so that the victim doubts herself" (Bradley-Colleary,